Relay management is key (and harder than it should be).
These relays should NEVER be in your Public Outbox (write) OR Public Inbox (read) relay lists. Please remove them.
relay.nsec.app
purplepag.es
sendit.nosflare.com
groups.fiatjaf.com
relay.getalby.com
inbox.nostr.wine
filter.nostr.wine/...
relay.groups.nip29.com
They are just wasting yours and your followers data plan. They are designed to go into other lists, not the regular ones you use in your client.
You can check your relays on https://metadata.nostr.com/
Discussion
Agreed. Though I like Vitor's relay guide for Amethyst, it's very informative. It would be great to have a guide for blossom and other media