When I was younger people would constantly tell me I was cocky/arrogant.

People don’t say that to me as much anymore.

I think it’s because I actually did a lot of the shit I said I was going to do.

It’s just reality now.

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Or you got a tad humble ?

I’m probably more relaxed now. I think my intensity level was much higher 10 years ago.

Relaxed and probably wiser.

10 years ago I felt I had to prove the whole world I existed.

Now, I just create my path without spotlights.

Same

🤝

Pretty arrogant thing to say…. 🤭

tbh, these days people are so far in the other direction that people who are assertive get labeled as aggressive/arrogant.

these broad strokes personality types exiat:

- passive

- passive aggressive

* assertive

- aggressive

the only healthy one on the list is assertive and while we all at times put on the other 3 masks, being assertive; meaning saying and doing what you think in a direct manner (this doesn't mean unkind), asserting what you want, and being honest to yourself and others is also the only adult personality in that list

Agreed, but the ironic thing is the other personality types view you as the unhealthy one.

the passive and passive aggressive will for sure. aggressive, I think mostly end up in trouble if not jail 🤣

If they still would have to tell you that now, they would also add that you're a slow learner

People often mistake arrogance with confidence.

It seems you haven’t changed.

The Kanye effect

You are what you are …