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#AboutNarcissism
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they teach children of alcoholics to dissociate as a coping mechanism.
Thank you 🙏
I suspected this but wasn't sure.
I've been hurt by a few narcissists, so I have been avoiding them rather than being open to help them.
No one knows how to explain but empaths and narcissists are formed from the same wound, that's why they tend to attract each other.
They have the same childhood blueprint.
One turns inward, and blame others; the other turns outward and blames self. One is a taker, the other is a giver.
Everyone says that narcissists cannot heal, while empaths can.
I have been trying to figure this out.
I am not sure if it's true.
Both are sides of the same coin. Now with the inflation of the self-diagnosed empaths it's important to understand that both populations are always in perfect balance in nature. Hence, a good chunk of the so-called empaths are in fact narcissists. Slay both accordingly just to be sure.
You're scared of becoming a narcissist so you became a cunt?
I've entertained both programs, can't say I find them useful. Anyone describing themselves as empath is probably a narcissist is disguise feeding on the stupidity of their followers. Also, the slaying part was a joke, I wouldn't use any blade for such cases. Both are laughable thinking they are doing any services to humanity when it's clearly just a symbiotic relationship between the two. So yeah, I'd rather be a cunt. I find it more honest this way.
You introduced me to the mirror nature of physicality.
You'll likely feel the weight of your judgement man. Let it go.
I haven't forgot that, it's mostly for research purposes. I'm fucking around to find out! I mean somebody has to do it. Talking about narcissistic traits. 🤭
I strongly believe in a layered humility.
I honestly don't like labels. We all have narcissist traits, and can be empathic. Empathy can be learned and improved by rewiring behaviour patterns.
What I have learned along the way is that everyone is deserving of love, but some, if they let us know that they will use it against us, it is better to keep healthy boundaries, or on an extreme, altogether remove ourselves entirely if they don't want our help and will use and abuse when treated with kindness.
The only way I know to keep myself in check is to surround with people I respect knowing they'll call my bullshit when the time comes. I strongly believe in roasting the members of my inner circle to the bones. Golden rule maximalist.
That thing about being civil to all, social to many and known to few.
I have been changing my ways along the years. At core, in my value, I stayed the same, but in connecting with others, there was a shift and I am always open to change. I have learn a lot by interacting with people from different backgrounds, beliefs, social groups, and even with personality disorders. I have a brother that suffers from schizophrenia.
I am not the kind of person of roasting people, but I will rationaly, sharpening cold and kindly call you up on your BS.
Much love to you and your brother.
Regarding the condition you've mentioned, my hypothesis is that people who get exposed to extraordinary circumstances unprepared tend to slide to what you've described.
I've lost a very close friend because of it and that motivated me to find and explanation and explore it further. Kids and 'crazy people' see beyond the physical realm. The society today has little tolerance to the supersensible.
Think out of the box or be hiper sensitive you are ostracized.
Sadly true.
It's impressive to note how his memory of things is so different from ours (rest of the family)...and I can see it clearly, know, that is a mechanism of self protection, from "abandoning" self.
It's mind blowing.
I researched after dealing with a dear one, that put me through the ringer. Our dynamic was so unhealthy and I was addicted to the highs that bear minimum attention would give me.
My curiosity to understand what was going on, let me to some understanding of how some people self defend, and in doing so, I am becoming again, much more tolerant and understanding of my brother.
Our connection shift once again, we were very close as teens, then he pushed me away. All of this happens on an energetic field first, and they fell it.
There are many asylums built in the Middle Ages in Europe. When you get the chance visit some to feel the vibe. Those people were not crazy but gifted to see under the veil.