Stop being so hard on yourself, noone else cares.

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I needed to read this right now

My buddy had a meltdown om the golf course yesterday and threw his club in the water.

Imagine, paying $150 to me mad. It just doesn't make sense.

Some people pay more to go to therapy which is arguably less cathartic 😂

I wonder how many golf clubs are underwater? Hmm…

Prob a bunch. Not as many as golf balls though. I find a dozen or so everytime I walk the course. Never buying balls again.

I didn't expect that to be the background story for this note 😂

I'm only hard on my wife.

I see what you did there

Pun's are always intended!!! :-)

I'd really be a PoS loser if I wasn't hard on myself. Lol.

And still, at the end of the day, noone would notice.

It's not that nobody would notice. Even losers get participation trophies now a days. It's you wouldn't care about their opinion of you.

Not giving a fuck is the most underrated art form.

I'll get hard on that ass. ;)

We are not perfect, but we can try to be better. Being hard is also useful sometimes 😉

Moderation is key 🔑

I'm not saying to be a lazy pos either. Just don't be so hard on yourself that it's harmful to yourself esteem.

very true as this :

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Hard on! Huh huh huh

I was thinking the other day about how no one is ever thinking about that cringy thing I did 10 years ago. Always puts me back in the mindset reminding myself of this

I hate that feeling of remembering an embarrassing moment in the past.

Even worse when it pops in your head as you are trying to fall asleep 😂

A middle ground is always the best choice. Sometimes we have to be tough and critical of ourselves if there is a need. And sometimes we should give each other big pats on the back and say to each other: ok man you're great

I'll take that as a sign. Thanks