Before you get married..
discuss bills, parenting styles, credit, debt, religion,
how to deal with family, what beliefs will be instilled in your children, childhood traumas, sexual expectations, financial expectations, family health history,
mental health history, bucket list, dream home, careers and education, political views and whatever comes to mind.
Love alone isn’t enough. 
"Love" without discussing those things is just infatuation.
Good reminder for those of us married too
For that plethora of reasons, I've never been, nor wish to, get married! How tf are you supposed to find compatibility with all that lot😂😂.
Yes, I completely agree. Having shared values is absolutely essential for a relationship to thrive. Without them, the relationship is likely doomed to fail.
