Damn, man. How old is the kid?
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so is it your kid, or another man's?
It's OUR KID.
She's leaving him with me and removing herself from the situation.
"Leaving her kid"
Please excuse my 8th grade English.
You think maybe that might be part of the problem? "Her kid" as opposed to "our kid" indicates that you keep your boy at arm's length because it's his mama's job to raise him fully. It's real easy to blame the mom when she leaves but it's real hard to look at the mirror.
As a mom myself I could never walk away from my child but sometimes people get overwhelmed when they feel like they're doing something alone that should be a team effort.
We both do our part. It's not one sided at all. If we did a side my side, I do alot more than just get his clothes or make some chocolate milk....
Why would I ever keep my son at arms length?
Everyone's reading into "her kid" way to far...
It's her kid. It's my kid. It's our kid.
Again, please excuse my 8th grade English.
Straight to court…
Make sure to get 100% custody of the child…
Make her pay you support…
Stay strong keep your chin up…
Godspeed
Never... that's toxic asf...
The court only cares about getting money from the family(either side)to make sure its harder for the family to function properly... when families function right, the states lose extra slush pool money...
Going right to court would be giving the government the next generation to siphon money from, because the kid learned from mom and dad, and this is what they did kinda scenario...
I have a post coming up later that I'm working on rn that's going to give you the secret sauce to women that I've found after going through this situation...
I haven't had a relationship last shorter than 3yrs and the woman I went after each time, I got...
I've gone through all the msgs etc to see how a loser like me has had that kind of "luck"...
Turns out it's not luck...
I was doing something no other man has done for them... something most men just miss...
Well it's not "her" kid. It's yours. Tighten up your shoelaces, big guy, this will be time to claw your way through. Yu will make it. Because you don't have other options.