Use nostr:npub1mutnyacc9uc4t5mmxvpprwsauj5p2qxq95v4a9j0jxl8wnkfvuyque23vg self custodial like Phoenix but plus members get a LNURL. Closest wallet to a silver bullet that I've seen so far and I've used almost all of them. You can also use mutiny like a custodial wallet if you want super cheap fees and no force closure by using Esats on a fedimint built into the wallet.