Sometimes I get a strange feeling around certain people - like they aren’t safe. That gut feeling we all get.

Got that feeling around one of my new neighbours πŸ€”. He stars and follows me - literally and with his eyes. Have had that happen before but this one I get a really bad vibe from. Was a bit scared πŸ˜….

I’m still a tough cookie πŸ₯Ή but I think learning to use a lighter so I can properly utilise my hairspray as a flame thrower is a necessity now πŸ”₯

That, or kick him in his private parts if it comes to it. I hear that hurts.

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Always go with your gut.

ALWAYS .

πŸ’―πŸ’―%

Only times I’ve had this fear is when I’m walking late at night and there’s a group of guys, or when I crossed paths with two pedophiles and a murderer - old neighbours of mine πŸ˜….

But I also don’t wanna misunderstand Boo Radley πŸ˜­πŸ™πŸ½

First i would say to be careful and safe, but i see you're the one to be feared 🀣

πŸ«‚πŸ’œ I’m a tough penguin πŸ₯ΉπŸ’―πŸ’ͺ🏽☺️ and if that fails, my brothers are rather scary πŸ₯ΉπŸ™πŸ½πŸ’œ

Keep your guard up, stay in open well lit areas, don't get cornered.

Self defense might seem like a good option but is a high risk if you don't have a plan of action memorized. Keep your distance for 99% of situations and leave self defense for the unavoidable.

I will do πŸ₯ΉπŸ«‚πŸ’œ tis hard though, most of my route is down spooky roads ☺️

I will look into self defence though, been thinking about it for a while πŸ€” I wanna move to stars hollow πŸ₯Ή

That’s what my ex said πŸ’― he was a police officer - I know, no fed zone πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜­πŸ™πŸ½ - and he always told me if anything were to happen to run and not help others, but it hurt my pride 😭

You must live in a dangerous neighbourhood too liminal πŸ«‚πŸ«‚πŸ’œ you know too much πŸ₯ΉπŸ«‚

Also, listen to death metal on your route, let it change your walking speed and gait - not too loud though, you want to be aware of your surroundings

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ex-GRAcqVUg

Aw man brings me back to college/high school listening to metal on the way home πŸ₯Ή always scared me a little bit though πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ™πŸ½πŸ«‚

Shadow work can be scary and uncomfortable, but it needs to happen.

Acceptance and integration moves you forward. Acknowledging and accepting the darker parts of humanity as a fact of life. Understanding those same dark parts also exist within you. Dont fear it, integrate it so that you harness toward your benefit.

The harmless individual will always be taken advantage of.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f8ZD2D1KFqw

I genuinely think heaven and hell are here on earth πŸ₯Ί I’m not quite built for earth πŸ˜‚ I feel too much πŸ™πŸ½ still scared of the dark, even in my late 20s πŸ₯Ή I do find the darkness curious, but I don’t know that I could ever let it in. Shall watch this now πŸ™πŸ½πŸ«‚πŸ§ looks rather intriguing

The claim here is that the shadow exists whether you want to acknowledge it or not. Failure to integrate it is actually irresponsible.

1) you fail to recognize it in others, opening yourself to be manipulated and hurt by others, or stand by as someone else is hurt/manipulated.

2) you fail to recognize it within yourself, meaning any moment of weakness it can take over you and you'd hurt another, including those you care about.

Its not fun work, but it should be practiced in some capacity. If anything you can find guidance (literally - through those you know, or figuratively from the characters or personas you can't immediately converse with - stories, lecturers etc.) Regardless, you can do it if you think its a path you should take πŸ«‚πŸ‘Š

I like this, it’s interesting πŸ₯ΉπŸ”₯πŸ’―πŸ™πŸ½πŸ«‚ I definitely have a little temper ☺️ takes a lot to come out but it’s there

I can tell you have a devilishly feisty side πŸ˜‰πŸ˜ˆ

πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ«‚ only for justice and my family πŸ™πŸ½πŸ₯Ή

You have such a big swet heart, anyone that messes with you deserves the hammer brought down upon them and then some πŸ‘ŠπŸ”¨πŸ—‘οΈ

Thank you liminal πŸ₯ΉπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ«‚πŸ˜­ don’t be so nice to me will make me cry πŸ«‚πŸ«‚πŸ’œ swear I’m getting dehydrated with the amount of times I’ve cried lately πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ«‚πŸ₯ΉπŸ™πŸ½

You kinda bring it upon yourself, being all sweet and whatnot πŸ™ƒ

Positivity brings positivity

You are wonderful πŸ«‚πŸ«‚πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ₯ΉπŸ™πŸ½

Oh my goodness I just remembered who he reminds me of - jeffrey dahmer 😭😭😭 I don’t wanna be eaten 🫠

Buy a gun and carry it everywhere

I might end up shooting myself by accident - I am terribly clumsy πŸ™ˆπŸ«‚ but maybe a pellet gun and I need a pink baseball bat 😍

Ok, learn Karate, whatever. Get training. Do not allow others to take advantage of you

Trust your gut. Always.

Apologize later if you have to for misreading. But initially, ALWAYS trust your intuition.

And get some bear mace. Its non lethal, but will break conflicts long enough to make a rapid exit.

I will πŸ₯Ήβ™₯οΈπŸ«‚πŸ™πŸ½ that’s a rather good point πŸ«‚ - Oo I think mace might be illegal in the UK 😭 might get it anyway though πŸ™πŸ½πŸ€” people have gone mad in London πŸ‘€

I'm sure there are websites that show you how to make a DIY pepper spray

Replace pepper flakes with ghost pepper flakes

I think there probably are πŸ’―πŸ”₯☺️ if I get caught with it I’m definitely in trouble, buuut fuck it 🀣 I’m an introvert anyway, jail would be like a retreat for me. I’ll just lift weights, read, befriend a mouse, work in the library, find a nice butch girlfriend and meditate πŸ”₯πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ«‚ sweeeeat

Bear mace is your best option imo

Onyx.Vixen I’m sorry you have to even have this πŸ™πŸ½πŸ˜­πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ«‚πŸ«‚πŸ«‚πŸ«‚πŸ«‚ I will look into this one πŸ«‚πŸ«‚

I once had a container of bear mace confiscated at the Canadian border. Supposedly, i was β€œwillfully surrendering it to the Queen”.

I hope she got it. πŸ€“

I hear she was buried with it πŸ₯ΉπŸ«‚πŸ’œπŸ«‚πŸ«‚ sorry they took it, that sucks πŸ™πŸ½

If it comes down to that, grab testicles and squeeze as hard as you can, also bite anything you can get, rip it off and bite again. Remember your elbow offers some amazing leverage. If you can get an arm around his neck, use your other arm to cut off air flow. Whatever happens don’t let go. No air means no power and unconsciousness. One he’s incapacitated find a way to bash his head in resulting in death. Otherwise the nightmare might continue upon awakening. I know this all sounds fatherly, if I could be there to protect you I would. I hate predatory creeps. πŸ’œ

This is brilliant advice and I’m very grateful for it, thank you Jac πŸ₯ΉπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ«‚πŸ«‚πŸ«‚πŸ«‚πŸ«‚ very kind of you πŸ«‚πŸ«‚πŸ«‚ I was thinking I’d have to squish his balls if he touched me πŸ˜­πŸ«‚πŸ«‚ me too πŸ˜­πŸ™πŸ½πŸ«‚

Good, being aware and listening to your instincts is a big part of protecting yourself.

πŸ’―πŸ’―πŸ₯ΉπŸ™πŸ½πŸ«‚πŸ’œ

Stay safe darling πŸ’œ (and I'll beat the living shit out of anyone that looks at you sideways 😊)

Jonathan, you have a gift πŸ₯ΉπŸ™πŸ½πŸ«‚ you can make me blush even on a note like this πŸ«‚πŸ€£πŸ«‚πŸ«‚ thank you πŸ₯Ήβ˜ΊοΈπŸ«‚πŸ’œπŸ™πŸ½ I very much appreciate this πŸ«‚πŸ«‚

It's just cause I mean it πŸ˜‰

You’ve got a good heart Jonathan πŸ™πŸ½πŸ’œπŸ«‚

You too πŸ’œ

Always go for the soft targets. Groin, neck, face, eyes. Collapsing a trachea is actually very easy. Ears are very painful and clapping them is very disorienting. Stabbing a long object into the eardrum is also very painful and disorienting. Raking the shin bone hurts like a muhfucker.

Thank you McMinty πŸ₯ΉπŸ™πŸ½πŸ«‚πŸ’œ ooo I’ve seen someone do the ear clapping one in a film before! I feel like I could definitely do that one πŸ™πŸ½πŸ«‚πŸ«‚πŸ«‚πŸ’―

You could, just smack the ear with an open hand. Bonus points if you get a double. If you can get the edge of your hand across the front of their neck and then smack that hand with your other hand as hard as you can then you can collapse the trachea. Make them unable to breathe and that normally changes their priority set pretty quickly.

Get a loud airhorn. Long knife. Whistle. Pepper Spray. Put a heavy master lock in a sock to hit him with. Do maximum damage. No half measures. Try not to be alone with no one around.

I love this advice Frank πŸ₯ΉπŸ«‚πŸ’œπŸ™πŸ½πŸ’― thank you πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½ the sock one especially πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½πŸ«‚ never thought of that πŸ«‚

To all the other advice, I'll add this. Listen to the animals, especially birds and other small animals. In a forest, a sudden silence tells you a large predator is approaching (bear or human). In a city, there is much more background noise, but I've found it very worthwhile to notice e.g. how birds post lookouts which give a piercing alarm when a cat approaches. Learn the alarm calls of the creatures around you.

You should have seen the look on our cat's face when I imitated an alarm call and the bird she was stalking flew away. (I don't interfere when she stalks mice, rabbits, or invasive bird in the US like English Sparrow.)

I've had animals warn me on several occasions. Once I noticed them all running silently in the same direction. I figured something was wrong, so I cut short our family hike, and headed back to our cabin. Just in time. Finally, our dull human senses could smell the smoke, and see the line of fire in the distance approaching. We had time to pack up the minivan and leave. (We learned that the fire had been set by an arsonist.)

Thank you so much for the advice Custom Designed πŸ₯ΉπŸ«‚πŸ«‚πŸ’œπŸ™πŸ½ I’m so sorry this happened to you and your family though πŸ«‚πŸ«‚πŸ«‚πŸ™πŸ½ glad you were all safe. Also I really like your writing πŸ™πŸ½πŸ’―