Hi everyone, I'm said wife. Many of you you are correct. Dishwasher doesn't clean 100%. Paper plates are great! He can wash dishes too. I enjoy the silence. I like routines, structure, etc. It's my routine and I don't mind it. We've been together for 10+ years. Our relationship isn't falling apart due to this. Just some thoughts from the male perspective. And yes women aren't always rational. ❤️