I see what you are saying. What’s the standard though? If you turn on YouTube to a channel, which I admit is not representative of the entire population, in general what is said is that the standard for women is the Three Six Men which basically eliminates a majority of the male population if you apply it to the most recent US census.

Some doing quick napkin math will realize you can’t match 1 to 1 to say 20% of men to say 80% of women, who are both active in the sexual market, just with the Three Six Men standard.

On the other side, most men have not changed their own standard of wanting a Traditional Woman. These are declining in numbers rapidly too, which further complicates matching and forming couples.

Both men and women are increasingly becoming less attractive to the opposite sex.

There’s societal consequences for keeping these same old standards and not adjusting to the modern age.