Lost a friend of 30 years yesterday because I put my foot down and wouldn’t let her abuse me while she was using me. She got so nasty on the way out spewing the most toxic disgusting thoughts she was harboring inside of her. She was a bottomless pit of victimhood and neediness that I put up with for too long (my fault) and after helping her immensely for many years she turned on me in a way that I shall not be forgetting. Good riddance.
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You are a good soul...let no one prove otherwise 💜🫂🫂
I’m sorry Helen. It sucks in the moment to sever any relationship even if it’s a bad one that must go 🫂
I’m really sorry you went through this. Losing a long-time friend like that is painful, but it takes real strength to set boundaries and protect yourself. I hope you find some peace in knowing you did the right thing for you.
Oh no! Sorry this had to happen 🫂. Hopefully you'll feel better without all the negativity she was bringing to your life. I hope you can do something to bring you some joy today 🫂💜
🧡🧡be strong Helen 💪
Oh no🥺 30 years is painful....
Well done you. Toxic relationships are hard to let go of, but well worth it 💪.
Makes room for the new to enter your life 🧡
I had a friend like this. He was my best friend. The best man at my wedding.
I had enough when I text him out of the blue to see how he was doing and went off in one of his typical moods.
For some reason, I was always worried about making sure he was happy and that’s not a good place to be in a friendship. Haven’t talked to him for years and don’t regret it.
Tough love comes from a great friend.
It can be hard to swallow pills 💊 and some choke on the medicine.
Forgive but don’t forget.