Bad people… who am I to decide.
It’s difficult for me to understand, especially as a very sensitive person, how some people are so rough with no regrets?
I have to learn to deal with this. But kindness is so important to me. Why do we have to deal with such and the reason is „those people are everywhere, so deal with it, nothing to do about it“ why? I can’t accept unfriendly and unhonest behavior just because it’s normal in our society.
You have to learn to deal with this. 🤷♂️
Learn more. Meditation helps.
In the end you might be able to accept that people are just different.
More Meditation would help a lot!
It’s necessary in a way. You wouldn’t value light if there was no darkness. You wouldn’t value health if there was no illness. You wouldn’t value the lovely people if there were no bad people in the world. It’s the binary system the universe operates with. Yin and yang ☯️
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Aww thank you. Ive needed this. Sometimes I vibrate too low, and forget all the blessings. Still a little bit upset, but at least I can decide how I spend my time in long term 💜
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There are good people and bad ones, ok mostly bad. While we can't control others, we have the power to choose kindness and honesty in our own actions, becoming catalyst for positiv changes. That was is my opinion.
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Thank you so much.😘😘
Don’t let others affect you, you are a very kind person, focus on you and in who and respects you. 💜🫂
This made me smile 💜 thank you so much.🙏🏼✨
I guess it depends what one considers kindness. To me, kindness is the ability to be cruel and choosing not to.
"I laugh at those that believe themselves kind merely for having no claws"
Well that’s a very interesting perspective!
Now I have to think…
Hum, I don’t really like talking mean to others, because I never know what they’re going through.
I love to see brighten faces after a kind act, I love saying hello please and thank you to the shop assistant.
Everyone serves in many ways, and I think it should be appreciated. Treating people kind, makes them happy and hype them up! But yes, you should set boundaries.
Kindness for love purposes only. 🙏🏼
Also I consider kindness is the personal responsibility for your actions. Kind deeds can bring positive outcomes. If k8nd deeds bring something negative they are not real k8nd deeds. #life #thought #philosophy
I appreciate the sentiment in this thread but let me just put this out there:
Perhaps you haven’t found an opponent in your weight class?
Well that’s a good approach! At least you can decide how to treat others, the perception is varied, and as long as you do not step over boundaries 🙏🏼
That’s the point. I’m willing to bet very few people to none step over your boundaries.
Please don’t misunderstand what I’m trying to say -
You are the only one that can test your boundaries. They are yours. Full stop.
It's okay, I fully understand what you want to say! Beyond boundaries, a warm and kind act, even if it's small, can bring about a positive change in someone. The energy you impart to others can radiate throughout their day. Kindness, in terms of creating a comfortable atmosphere, helps make the world a bit more peaceful. 💛
Example - my boundaries are definitely averse to random acts of kindness. My upbringing gave me boundaries that if I didn’t earn it then such charity would make me feel less than and not leave me in a particular peaceful state.
The world —needs more people
like you. 🫶💜—
Sometimes saying mean words is a greater kindness than not saying them. I have seen language some would regard as venomous save the life of an addict that may not have mulled over their actions long enough if not for the lingering sting of truth.
A lovers quarrel never fixed because apologies came too quick, and the counseler was the only one willing to say them.
A narcissist slowly gaining emotional control over the empathetic who could not resist, and nobody else was willing to say the mean words to pull them away.
Kindness is not just nice words, it is also a painful language that saves at the right time or inspires a better way of living.
At this point I agree with you
In some situations it’s not the „good“ way of communication.
Thank you for your words, I appreciate them.🙏🏼
I understand your point. There are individuals who display malicious behavior, but it's important to be aware of them without letting their actions consume your attention. They have their own motivations, and unfortunately, we may not have the ability to change their mindset. Instead, lets focus on stacking sats, this is the best tool available today to get out of the vicious cycle. Stay positive and prioritize your own well-being. 💜
