A lot of people on nostr will disagree but this will be a feature on nostr eventually. A client will offer it but it’ll come with a tradeoff.
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I don’t get that lol. It’s my info, I should be able to choose who receives it
It’s not really your info, just your keys. You have the power to post but the posts technically belong to the relays. All the relays can take down your posts and censor you but that’s very unlikely to happen. The client can also censor certain posts from being shown on their app. But other clients may not do that. That’s my understanding of it all.
We run our own relay hub tho and apparently we can’t even do it that route 😂
you could add that feature to your relay technically. auth + filters. but this would be specific to your relay.
And then I could invite/allow access to preferred users onto said relay correct?
You’d have to only post to your own relay and then block those weirdos from connecting to that relay. But then you’re limiting who gets to see your posts to people connected to your relay lol the tradeoff is not great