Alby for receiving since they give you a lnurl. Blixt or Zeus for sending. I'd recommend wos or alby for newcomers, then gradually show them more options
Discussion
can you zap someone with Alby?
I don’t see it in the list of default wallets in damus zap settings
Probably not in Damus since alby is a browser extension. Best to use Phoenix, Blixt or any other lightning wallet to zap. I use Albys lnurl to receive
Yes, you can: https://blog.getalby.com/1tapzap-in-damus-with-alby/
It even works directly in Damus without leaving the app.