This makes me think about the importance of a father for a little boy. Also, the differences in birth order. My oldest brother had adults and no siblings for the first few years. I was the youngest, so I had a dad and brothers from the get-go to help guide me. The middle brother had some emotional struggles, and I wonder how that plays into things. This is something I want to explore more for #homeschooling. My "kid" son is even behind my "toddler" daughter in many ways, it breaks my brain trying to understand it. He had stressor in his life early on (divorce and custody tradeoffs, and different parenting since his parents are very different people), and those no doubt have had, and will continue to have, lasting impacts. How to best support and guide him is something that weighs on me constantly.

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Your son will be either on the right or the left of the hamster wheel - sounds like he may be more on the left but I might have inferred wrongly from your message. The weight you mentioned is the gift to observe. I would guess you worry that he may be/feel unable in some way.

So in understanding your thoughts/framework about him, you will start to see a pattern emerge and you will start to be able to observe it more and more. I would suggest that pattern will work like a hamster wheel. The beautiful thing is, once you see your own wheel spinning, you create space for something different to emerge—both for you and for him.🙏