We are constantly changing, and it’s difficult for a couple to grow together through a long-term relationship unless they have aligned values and mutual goals.
Even then, sometimes those aren’t enough.
As we encounter inevitable personal growth, but we are not the same people we were when we met, and most grow apart.
I’ve been in long-term relationships where my needs were not met, and I endured them for years. Today I am married with children, and my needs are not my priority anymore.
I still have needs, and they will be filled one way or another, but when my children are grown, I hope to rekindle the fire we had when I started my family with my wife.
I know how happy we are riding our bicycles and doing simple things… it won’t take much to get it back, as long as either one or both of us doesn’t take the ‘easy way out’ and quit along the way… 🤔
