Replying to Avatar Jeff Swann

Yes, I was making light of a truly disgusting situation. If you don't learn to laugh at clown world you can end up in a very dark place.

I don't think beauty pageants are often populated by people of particularly high confidence. And if they were they wouldn't all be lying to a 300lb woman to make themselves feel better.

What she has is metabolic dysfuction & a bunch of people telling her it's great. And if she also thinks it's great then where does that lead?

Being "nice" in the short term is easier on you, but it contributes to the destruction of the people you are lying to. It is the most cowardly people who tell the most white lies. If she was standing right in front of me I would tell her she is overwheight & that it's not beautiful at all. And that the emptiest sort of win anyone could ever experience is a "win" they secretly know they didn't earn. I would tell her that she is surrounded by horrible people who would clearly prefer to humiliate her than to help her. And I would offer dietary advice if she wanted it.

If you are more bothered by my words than by what is going on in that picture, then idk what to tell you.
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𝔼𝕣π•ͺπ•Ÿ 𝔹𝕣𝕒𝕔𝕔𝕠 1y ago

I never said I supported what’s going on in the picture, and frequently said it’s totally fine to disapprove of it, but yeah, your dehumanizing words do disturb me. They don’t befit someone who sees himself as a Christian. God would call her his child, not a jug of canola oil.

Take every thought captive.

I also am not supporting being β€œnice.” If I were β€œnice” I wouldn’t be calling you out. I’m talking about being loving and respectful.

There are loving and respectful ways to address her problems but you chose to be an edgelord instead πŸ€·πŸ»β€β™€οΈ

I can tell you’re one of those guys who thinks your personal standard of beauty is universal, and to that I say: Venus de Milo

I happen to share your aesthetic preference on that, but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t have a beautiful smile, hair, skin, whatever.

People who can find beauty somewhere have more fun in life, try it maybe.

Again I say though, sure, she probably shouldn’t have won a beauty contest. But that isn’t what I was originally addressing. Only your choice to be disrespectful.

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Jeff Swann 1y ago

Well, if we're gonna start personifying God, then I think God might say he doesn't know her...

along with most of the people who put her where she is.

These people do not live in reality, they are very lost.

Beauty standards are by no means universal, but markers of health are naturally attractive with all sorts of evolutionary biology to back that up. I do think that anyone who finds this attractive is truly broken & suffering from some deep sort of corruption.

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Jeff Swann 1y ago

Yes, look at this beautiful smile...

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𝔼𝕣π•ͺπ•Ÿ 𝔹𝕣𝕒𝕔𝕔𝕠 1y ago

Yeah this pic is really unflattering.

Still a jerk move to be insulting. Please don’t.

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Jeff Swann 1y ago

The picture is not the problem.

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𝔼𝕣π•ͺπ•Ÿ 𝔹𝕣𝕒𝕔𝕔𝕠 1y ago

As unattractive as this woman may be, sir, you have shown yourself to be the truly ugly one.

I hope you actually find Jesus or find some other way to grow your character.

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Jeff Swann 1y ago

How hurtful & unchristian of you...

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𝔼𝕣π•ͺπ•Ÿ 𝔹𝕣𝕒𝕔𝕔𝕠 1y ago

Correction: Venus of Willendorf, not de Milo.

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ArkonaFan 1y ago

She and her enablers need to be brought back to reality. It’s not going to be a pleasant experience and people in danger of slipping into the same delusion need to be warned away from it. Not saying name calling would be my preferred method of doing that, but I seriously doubt Jack or this Jeff guy would actually call that person names to their face. In the military they call people worse for a whole lot less in order to make them stronger. No one is laughing at that person or even trying to degrade them. In each life we are entrusted with a vessel that should be cared for more than probably any other possession we have have. Christ took a whip to people defiling Gods temple. Now we each have a temple of flesh that we are to care for. Do you not think God has something to say about her defiling her temple with obvious bad health choices?