How can I choose to use only a few relays and hundreds?
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You can add the relays you want to see to the Proxy Relay list in your Relay Settings. That disables the outbox model and only brings posts for the feed from that list of relays. Which means you might miss when your follows don't post there.
The big list is the sum of all the lists your follows are posting to. So, it connects to everything to make sure you are not missing a post or a reply.
nostr:npub1q6ya7kz84rfnw6yjmg5kyttuplwpauv43a9ug3cajztx4g0v48eqhtt3sh did you try just putting TheForest and nostr.land as proxies?
Nope. I am not on nostr.land so I could really only use the forest or wheat or mleku's test relay.
Everyone with gitcitadel.com NIP-05 has write access to Nostr.land.
nostr:nprofile1qqs99d9qw67th0wr5xh05de4s9k0wjvnkxudkgptq8yg83vtulad30gprpmhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumn0wdmksetjv5hxxmmdqyg8wumn8ghj7mn0wd68ytnvv9hxgqg4waehxw309askwemj9ehx7um5wghxcctwvss2rp25 can you double-check that we didn't forget to whitelist Beave?
You did not specify their pubkey in the list
You have 1 basic seat remaining for 1 year, though that tier is no longer available. So any renewals is not possible except using the one that exists.
You may upgrade to Plus or Essentials
Woops. 🙈 Can you add him and send me the bill, thanks.