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How much do we talk and act according to the other person's gender, age, cultural background, etc.? A lot of time perceived and even stereotypical ones.

Why are we not just acting the same with everyone? Just being ourselves?

More importantly, do you talk differently with men and women?? I'm curious.

JoySun 2y ago

Okay, maybe I should've just said this from the get go. Now this note is getting many misunderstandings.

I've been chatting with someone (don't want to reveal whom, unless you wanna identify yourself. And as we talked about, I'm coolel with this misunderstanding, anyways...) that I thought was a woman, but turned out to be a man. But our convos holds true, so that made me wonder does gender really matter in some cases and how much we modify our convos based on the other person's gender??

What if we didn't? Maybe we could land something beautiful.

#thoughtstr

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Modus 2y ago

Indeed.

I think more ladies should try using a non-gendered pseudonym. Maybe this is a biased estimate, but I think 99% of non-gendered nyms on Nostr are probably men.

Ladies, hide your gender online and let us know what you discover!

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JoySun 2y ago

Hmm I'll comment more after I read the guide.

But for now, I'd say I'm not too bothered by showing my gender.

I know women who lie to do that, but I'd say if I had to hide it to be treated differently aka better, that only backfires. But of course, for privacy reasons, it's a good thing to hide it.