REQing for the other user I'm getting back 0 events from the relay.
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Auth only applies to read requests, so that's where I'd focus my attention; on your process for authing using the npub the message was written to.
That's what I expected but that's not where the issue is. I can auth to the relay when REQing just fine. I just don't get back any events.
When I try and publish I'm seeing the auth request and the auth response but then the event publishing fails.
Are you only having this issue with auth.nostr1.com? Or is it all similar DM relays?
talkin to jeff on the simplex .. ya the auth is required for read and write. anything else pre-auth will (should) receive an ok=false response.