Hey Troy, sorry that happened to you. This was a fresh Ditto server, right? Not ditto.pub or gleasonator.dev. What happened is that the brand new relay didn't have your follow list, so it created a new one.

This might be helpful to restoring your old list: https://habla.news/u/alex@gleasonator.dev/1718477124783

Someone also shared this tool: https://hist.nostr.land/

We are working on fixing this issue that can happen on fresh Ditto servers. For now admins of new servers should import events from existing Nostr relays before inviting people to join their server.