I had these same issues with Primal and couldn’t even get their wallet to work, but Damus + Coinos did the job for me on iOS. I still need a good experience for desktop though.
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How did you manage to set up damus + Coinos though? I don't have Coinos in the dropdown Wallet Selector list.
Copy the coinos NWC connection string and manually paste in Damus.
Idk, I'm obviously doing something wrong or missing something ridiculously simple lol! 😆
Click on the setting wheel next to the wallet in Coinos
You’ll also have to run the script to turn on the zap icon in Damus which is hidden by default due to Apple Store policy.