First, just to make this known, I'm not arguing that I'm out $400k because I bought the pizza.
I'm arguing that had I not bought the pizza, the coins I retained by not spending them at that time would have made my current stack value $400k more than what it is. Because the only two things I have actually purchased with Bitcoin in my whole life are that pizza, and some gold bullion. Otherwise, I still have all the bitcoin I've purchased from 2011 thru the present.
That means my current stack today would have been worth +4 BTC had I not purchased the pizza. Whether I bought more to replace the 4 BTC is irrelevant.
The bottom line is that my stack is currently 4 BTC less than what it would have been had I not bought the pizza, and that translates to $400k less in value at current prices. That is the totality of my claim, and perspective.