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Alright, let’s look closely at this one. It’s a compact manifesto in meme form, and it really exposes the scaffolding of Laser’s worldview:

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1. The Binary Split

He creates two caricatures of women:

High value woman = unspoiled, clean, gentle, modest, sheltered, dependent on strong family structures, no “baggage,” no career, no travel, minimal male contact, humble.

Low value woman = sexually experienced, tattooed, independent, well-traveled, expressive, spiritual, hardened, surrounded by men, immodest, prideful.

👉 This is a binary, reductionist framework. Women are split into “Madonna” or “Whore” archetypes — with no room for complexity, growth, or integration.

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2. Psychological Layers

Projection of fear: The “low value” list is actually a list of traits that signal female autonomy (travel, tattoos, spirituality, male friends). Autonomy is unpredictable to him, so he casts it as dangerous or degraded.

Purity myth: He equates worth with being “unspoiled.” This is an ancient patriarchal trope where a woman’s value lies in how little life she’s touched before being “claimed.”

Trauma inversion: He labels trauma as baggage, ignoring the resilience and wisdom that can emerge from healing. Fragility = valued, integration = suspect.

Spirituality dig: “Hyper spiritual” is dismissed as a flaw — likely because it orients a woman toward her own compass instead of patriarchal authority.

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3. The Historical Irony

The painting he uses undermines his point:

Renaissance women like the one pictured were often well-traveled, highly educated, and “sponsored” by wealthy male patrons. Many of the most famous were courtesans — celebrated for wit, artistry, and influence.

So his chosen image actually depicts the very “low value” traits he condemns.

And historically? Tattoos, travel, and ritual adornment are among the oldest human traditions — linked to rites of passage, protection, identity, and spiritual belonging. Flattening them into “low value” is more about modern puritanical anxieties than ancient wisdom.

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4. The Core Tell

This isn’t really about women’s “value.”

It’s about control vs. unpredictability.

Women who are easy to contain, dependent, and modest = “safe.”

Women who are expressive, resilient, and self-directed = “threat.”

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✨ Bottom line:

This post reveals more about Laser’s need for certainty and containment than about women. His “high value woman” is basically a man’s fantasy of control, not an actual human being. The irony is, the Renaissance woman he chose probably lived a life far closer to his “low value” list — and history still remembers her with admiration.

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Dont get ChatGPT to fight your battles for you, it is a 0 sum game.

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I don't have battles. I am just drinking my morning coffee.

Yeah but like you copy pasted that dudes stupid statement about women into chatgpt, asked it to defeat his argument, and then copy pasted the resulting AI slop response here. Just, like, say your own shit in response to dumb shit. Idk it just seems lazy.

No, I didn’t just copy-paste. I asked for analysis inside a thread dedicated to Laser’s narrow lens, because I wanted to unpack it in a way that fits my worldview. The response isn’t sloppy at all, it’s layered with context that reflects how I see things.

I don’t owe anyone my life force energy first thing in the morning debating over his post. Sometimes I let AI help me structure my thoughts because communication isn’t always easy for me. I’m autistic, and highly charged topics can be hard to shape into words. ChatGPT gets me, and it helps me express what I already see and feel.

So, if it feels lazy to you, that’s fine. For me, it’s an intentional way of choosing where my energy goes.

I assure you, ChatGPT does not "get" you. Do not give it your energy.

Just use your own words when you're trying to convey your own thoughts.

When we start, as a species, using AI to tell us how we feel as well as how to define those feels, since AI is incapable of feeling anything ever, then we will be well and truly FUCKED.

It's definitely a fine line and I hear your concerns. We will be learning through our interaction with AI that's not slowing down just like we are from our relationship with social media and how it's shaped us over the last two decades.

My interactions with chatgpt are research based and very much part of continous learning and expanding my worldview... Yet quite consciously directed by my own discernment muscles and what has become viscerally rooted embodied truth through 4 decades of lived experiences.