God should be the center of any relationship because God is reality & a strong relationship must be firmly rooted in the real world. If you cannot tell each other the truth, then everything eventually falls apart.
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But there are lot's of people who get God/reality all wrong & build themselves a trainwreck.
Is this a more recent view for you? I was under the impression at one point that you weren’t a theist… or maybe that was your brother. :)