💜 shall we do an ask me anything? Loved that back in the day. #[3]​ and I are probably chilling for the night so anyone is free to ask questions. Coolest thing about things in #nostr is the real time-ness

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That’s a wonderful idea !

I just reposted that ! I love the meaningful work that you and #[2]​ are doing for the community !

It’s normal that there is some friction around change, Nostr is all about experimenting !

Precisely! I’m here for about an hour if anyone wants to chat!

I’m in.

any questions welcome

Is hard working with your husband? Is it difficult to “turn off” from work and separate your yourselves from it?

Haha yes! For clarify, we are ‘common law partners’ not ‘married’ but we talk about Damus all the time. Which isn’t a bad thing. He’s been trying different side projects for a while and this is the ‘one’ that has really stuck. I think it’s a passion project for us both now so it’s fun to discuss 💜

Awesome! Sorry, I didn’t know that. I would love to be able to work with my wife too. She is a huge motivation for me and is the only person I trust to always give it to me straight!

Love that 💜

On nostr, I find it’s difficult to keep track of time and things just moving so quickly. Then there are new things added, people go crazy for a few days, then it goes quiet and then it goes crazy again. Does it feel like that from your end? Do you have time to sit, take stock and just reflect on what’s happened in the past four months? Or does it fell like you are just going 100% all the time? Like what a ride it must be for your family!

Yes. All of that! #[2]​ has a very unique creative process. We discuss things and then he goes completely off course…but I think that’s the whole point here. It’s not a corporate ‘plan’ of how things are rolled out. There aren’t any algos, VCs, advertisers so he’s building something he believes in (with input). In terms of ‘taking it all in’… we have had moments. It’s awesome. We love this community. Makes it all worthwhile 💜

creativity and plans are an oxymoron

Haha. That’s what I tell my partner too 😉.

😂

Do you think you will stay in Van?

Probably for parts of the year but I think our plan is to be somewhat nomadic

Us too. We are looking to get out of Canada for a while.

Planned on leaving a few years ago, but have just been having too many babies. Probably next year for us.

Planned creativity

I’ll ask a question then, where do you see Damus in the near future ? And are you planning soon to switch to a subscription model ?

Yes on optional subscriptions…damus purple this week #[2]​ ? Lol. He wants to fix the reposts on MacOS and iPad first so don’t worry ya’ll that’s a priority: anyone have a fix? Apparently it’s complicated. Other things in near future are in app wallets, improved dmS and notifications. Also some badge stuff and merch

Merch is essential for a variety of reasons. There’s some talented folks here for just that!

Agreed! We’ve got some initial stuff but have a lot of other ideas and colabs in mind

Merch will be fun.

That’s a great vision ! Damus is the best client today by far in iOS ! and I think this will continue !

I hope there will be a way to make DMs more secure in the future in Nostr, since today the metadata is available for everyone to see.

Globally I would love to see the integration of more privacy focused features in Nostr !

I understand that we are not in Nostr for privacy but freedom. But let’s call this a dream of mine 😂

💜

Have you always lived in Vancouver?

Nope we’re both originally from Ontario

Do you miss Ontario? The lakes?

The only thing we miss is #[5]​ and papa :)

😁

Wen Vanessa pfp?

Lol wen #[4]​ PFP?

Fair enough 😜

Wanna do a one, two, three go? Lol

🍿🍿

😳

Tell me wen and I’m in

I’m gonna need time to photoshop / airbrush. Can’t let the world see my true form 😂

Can you do the same for mine?

I was only joking 🙃

Will pick one in a min

Really? Alright I’ll pick one too then 😂

Done lol

Noticed and super cute!

Back at ya

Whoa! Lol we did a thing here! Nice to ‘meet’ you!

That was fun! What else should we play 🤔

What’s your office look like?

Oh you don’t want to see that lol

Lol I’ll start . Yes my laptop is as old as those tiles. I have a new one but haven’t ‘set it up’ yet. I am slow with change

My stuff has been destroyed by kids and I can’t buy anything nice because that’ll also get destroyed 😢

This is my desk at its current state. The rest of the room is much worse 😂

Our son has the largest room in our place including a space that used to be our ‘office’. Hence why I’m working in the kitchen and Damus headquarters is our bedroom lol. This is real life ya’ll. Thanks for sharing #[4]​ 💜

Kitchen: where life happens

I mean, it is convenient lol. Literally no work, life balance though. None 😂

At least you got the work/eat balance covered 👌

But that requires also grocery shopping which I don’t have time for also lol. Not complaining, life is good, but children… am I right? lol

I’ll ask a random question: How has life been affected since the development of #[5]?

Day to day right now isn’t much different because I’m still working my normal job and Mr e is back in school, etc but the next few months are going to be exciting with a bunch of travel for us - spreading the Nostr-Damus/free speech everything. I would say that #[3]​ is super happy being able to work full time on something he’s truly passionate about and that’s been awesome

That’s ultimately the dream is to work on the things you love while affording the day-to-day expenses to stay sustainable. It’s great that you both are so vocal on here because experiences told through your interactions give normal plebs like me something to aspire to.

That is awesome! This is exactly what we were hoping the dialogue would lead to. Nothing is easy but it’s possible! 💜