twitter lmao
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I don’t even think Twitter compares
at least with twitter the people sending me that shit have less of an idea where i live so v good point
Also I don’t think people completely delete their profiles, uninstall the app with Twitter as often as they do on Tinder.
Or other dating apps in general
Hell! Hinge went with the tagline “the app that’s meant to be deleted”
Never tried hinge. Dunno last time I attempted to try new dating apps I ended up on fetlife… wasn’t ready for it
Years ago I tried to convince a guy on Tinder he should go to FetLife. He really wanted someone to peg him. I still don’t know why I carried on a conversation with him. I just didn’t want him to feel shamed. I hadn’t learned to just say, “not my kink” and move it along.
yeah. thats rough im sorry. its a difficult position to be in for sure
Weirdly he actually seemed sweet just had no idea how to go about finding a partner who aligned sexually. I’ve met so many people in the kink community who discuss their kinks at dinner parties with people they barely know. So I’m just like whatever. I’m one of those people who strangers or near strangers love to disclose things to. I’ve learned it’s up to me to protect my boundaries when I’m not able to make space for that.
Hinge I would say is definitely more date-y if that makes sense.
Never deleted my profiles. I know I will be back… usually last one date, often none.
I wonder, if a dating app was built on Nostr, would it inherit the overall Nostr vibe?
The last time I tried to have a Tinder profile I think I lasted maybe 36 hours before deleting my profile and the app.
Didn’t even let this one match who actually seemed chill know I was deleting the app entirely. He ended up being my nurse the first night in the hospital after surgery. I was way too stoned from anesthesia for that.