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This is silly because it’s admiting gender is a performance, which REINFORCES gender stereotypes.

At some point we lost our way: the word “woman” or “man” was on its way (still a long way to go of course) to lose relevancy socially). “So you are man? That says very little about you. Let’s learn more relevant stuff”.

But now? It’s an illogical clusterfuck.

campusalot 1w ago

[ice skating arena, ice skaters are coming on and off the ice]

jennifer: how did i do out there?

jennifer's coach, jeff: you were a natural

jennifer: good. it felt natural

[ice skating arena, ice skaters are coming on and off the ice]

jennifer: how did i do out there?

jennifer's coach, jeff: you were a natural

jennifer: good. cos it was really a struggle. the step sequences before the axel in time with the music is killing me. i cant get in it.

jennifer's coach jeff: well it comes across as in it. a little behind but in.

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campusalot 1w ago

i think chemistry also plays a factor, or can

the chemistry of environment, the relations surrounding someone

as in: to be aware when it feels degrading to just exist as a woman in a man's presence

vs not even having to think about it, and just showing up as you are

campusalot 1w ago

i mean that in every which way

i feel uncomfortable being girly around my mom

i cant be like this with my car mechanic

im always more butch around this best friend, it's just naturally how we are together, our dynamic

me and this cousin are super gay

campusalot 1w ago

why were you like that with him?

that was our chemistry

a. and i liked it

b. and i didnt like it

c. i liked it til i didnt

campusalot 1w ago

takes more than just two, environmental of everyone, lived experience, past relationships, parents, siblings, ancestors, animals, location