something stable and safe I guess we can find in the choice of being together. I wouldn't add predictable.

there is a lot of space for mistery and excitement and extraordinary every day.

mistery is something that surrounds us all the time.

with him, I'm comfortable enough to look at my shadows and I'm constantly changing, being more aware of myself and, by doing this, I look at him with fresh eyes.

and life like this, even a simple life with the kids and doing things we love and care about, is extraordinary.