I am watching that video right now btw. So you believe those who are saved live forever but the ones who are not are destroyed, meaning blotted out forever. I think I understand you now. Seems you have had a long journey. My journey started when I was 18 but don't believe I was really saved until decades later. I had lots of confusion because I could not even read the bible without misinterpreting it. In fact everything I read was like this. I was so grateful when I could read the bible and understand it.
Like I said I have a lot to learn so it is nice to hear different points of view. I think it was awesome we could talk and not argue. So many have to argue if they don't agree with one another.
All I can say at this point is I hope you are right that people who are not saved are simply blotted out, but even that is a super scary thing to me. It was actually something I was terrified of when I did not have a true belief in God.
I am watching this right now but having trouble paying enough attention to it. I will watch it again and pass it on to my retired pastor friend as well.