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I have enjoyed my share of beautiful homes in a city. It feels good to have a secure place to call my own. I get some privacy, protection from the elements, a place to keep my belongings. I enjoy being able to get anything I want super fast. Often, I even got a bit of land with the deal.

But is it my land? I can't take any of it with me. I pay rising taxes for it. Often there are strict rules about what I can and can't do: Homeowners associations, county codes, neighborhood watch, police, etc. So what do I really have the rights to?

I can “own” a condo in the middle of city, while basically gaining no actual rights to anything, other than the right to stay there and pay taxes on it for some period of time. A good “investment” I suppose

Or...

I can “own” 100 acres, build a house, drill a well, put in solar and wind energy with batteries...

There is land all over the place for dirt cheap. And in some places, they will even let you use the land however you want, build to your own standards, live in a travel trailer, have zero fences, keep free animals, whatever. Imagine that, property that you can “own” and actually use the way you see fit.

Of course, that is two ends to the spectrum and there are opportunities everywhere in between.

For me the question is less, what am I buying, and more, how do I want to live?

There are of course big trade-offs to roughing it. Perhaps the land is off-grid, no sewer, water, septic, electricity, no mail, difficult to reach, lacking community, no phone service,(trade-offs or perks?).

As humans we seem to enjoy solving problems and finding solutions. Wouldn't it be nice to conquer our own challenges? Keep our energy for ourselves as opposed to giving most away? When we learn to live simply, we remember to reconnect with the now and the beauty all around us, nature. So maybe giving up some distractions and doing some “hard” work for ourselves can be a blessing.

I feel that the most fulfilling life for me is the one where I spend my energy only with activities and connections that I am aligned with. These are the win-win connections, where I feel energized by them instead of depleted. Doing what I love to be doing. Being with whom I want to be with. Learning to live more simply, always sharpening my tools and skills. Never fully there but more self-sufficient every day.

Where do you want to fall on the spectrum?

Are you living the way you want to be?

If you want to make a change, what are waiting for?

What are the best parts of living where you live?

I love to hear from all of you

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All I can say is try buying land in the UK and then living on it… the laws here are mental.

A big reason why I live where I do is because of the very relaxed, opt out permiting process. Basically you can do what you want with your land. Not true most places.

I am envious of that….

Slowly building my life the way i want it, i made many a choice that was not for me in the past, 2-3 more years and i shall see where i will be. Hopefully with sunkissed skin and surrounded by flowers & my family.

I think you are a few years ahead of me

Once you are set up off grid with some basic creature comforts. It's hard to imagine going back to living "on-grid"

Nice post 🙌🌄

I agree. I don't feel like I am sacrificing anything. I feel like I get to live in my own kingdom. I could never go back.

You talked about two extremes. Each of them has its pros and cons. Obviously the more freedom you want, the more you have to choose the second option. Isolated, caravan and you produce energy, electricity and food. Obviously a middle ground would be needed. Self-sufficient that yes! But not isolated from the world as a hermit.

It may have taken a while to get there but we designed the life that we wanted. Now we live/love it every day. We chose SW TN, due to the extremely low property taxes and true unrestricted property. This aspect alone has proven to be very liberating.

Sounds awesome. Like real freedom, or at least much as we can have in this strange world.

I'm currently connected to the electricity grid on 2 acres.

I'm resilient but far from self sufficient. I'm not even sure that this is something to aim for any more.

What I yearn for is living around others with aligned values in a community that's largely self sufficient.

Conquering the challenges with others is far more satisfying that doing it alone. I'm becoming comfortable with the discomfort of being early. I also don't think we're too far off seeing others come to a similar conclusion on the desirability of community living.

Communities make it a lot easier. I think I am ready to call mine in. Inhavent found anyone willing to live out here yet.

I don't think it's about making things easier. I find involving others, ironically often makes things more complicated.

It's more rewarding to build something as a group. To overcome a shared challenge, together.

I think that shared struggle is how strong bonds are forged.

Share your vision & invite others to join you. The right people always seem to show up.