100%, little "s" socialism can be an amazing lifestyle for a group of people who voluntarily live that association. It's that whole forcing others to do what you say, definitely one of the roots of evil.
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Collectivism isn't socialism.
Combining voluntarily with others is not socialism.
Socialism involves believing nobody has rights to their own product, labor, money, trade, skills, and so on.
Huge difference
Completely fair. I'm being far too loose with words. I attempted to separate socialism from its marxist/politically-charged roots by emphasizing a little 's', but, collectivism is a "cleaner" word.
I think the problem is constant conflation by the people who actually support it. Language on all sides is constantly co-opted and made vague and confusing.