That would be a good idea yes
Discussion
Can I just copy yours?
Like is that a safe assumption?
Sure. My outbox relay wont work for you and the paid ones will only work if you have a sub (filter wine, wine, nostr land)
I love node
Same brother
Really you’re such a good neighbor for folks. It’s honorable and good.

Please don’t end up being a hot blonde. It will complicate this dynamic
I might be 😬 I’m Bronde not Blonde if that helps, I still have to post a shoe on my head verification picture , according to people on here , if their not f’ing with me
Don’t do it 😂
It’s a scam ? I almost did
It’s not a scam just a campaign to prevent new nymss from extractive introductions and then leaving with the bitcoin No need if you participate in the community
I don’t know man. A person’s anonymity and privacy is worth more than the 1000 sats the scammers get. I feel like there’s a better way than that “campaign”
Oh I forgot to say I was planning to hide half of my face with the shoe lol
What about the other half? 😂🤣
I’m with you in essence but I like the shoe shaming it’s just fun. If someone wants to be anon they have my support.
I don’t know man. It’s kinda funny but losing your anonymity online because one person decided. Not the best way to welcome people. Worst part is the people doing it won’t understand the impact until much later
Alright, guess I’ll whittle mine down to <10, and maybe consider paying for one or two… thanks quant, learning lots today. Zapping above note for insights 🧠
And hist nostr land and purplepag are not conventional relays either. First one is to backup your follows and second one is nostr purple pages. Like yellow pages
Is there a breakdown of relays or relay setups like you just gave?
I have relays for days and need to clean them up to the ones that are solid.
Less than 10 relays (because of the bug)
You want a few big relays like damus or nos.lol, a few paid relays like wine or the filter (if you want). Some smaller like nostr.land or WoT. I like to have utxo’s news relay. And purplepages (for dsiscoverability) and hist.nostr.lan for backups. Last 2 aren’t necessary. I just find they make my life easier
After removing a few yesterday to get below 10, stuff seems to display a bit faster (reaction counts etc) but still off by quite a bit frequently until I click into it.
It honestly doesn’t really bother me that I’m flying a little blind, but is there something more I might be missing out on? Is this what paid relays deliver? Don’t have problem paying for one just not sure what I get for it
Which clients are you comparing?
Paid relays usually have better spam control. Some have additional features like wine’s filter for example
Was just staying inside Damus. For example just scrolled down feed to a note posted 20 mins ago and it appears to have no interaction (no reaction, no reply, no zap). When i click on it I then see there’s a comment and a zap. Figured this was just the norm for nostr
When I compare primal to Damus (have a few times in past) it’s hard to really make sense how they differ, and not sure I care 😆 But maybe I should?
Don’t wanna turn this into a drawn out tech support thing for you, so no need to fully educate/fix. Ears open though
I don’t have an explanation for that unfortunately. Once Damus fully implements nostrdb (the thing will is working on), it’ll probably be more reliable. I get similar results on other clients. Although Nostur has an option for this (toggling on/off reactions in the feed)
Thanks for the tech support. May pay for a relay just to test. Thanks again 🐸
🐸🤝
Paid for nostr.wine. Can’t really tell for sure, but seems faster to update stats, but still only after I click into a post. Again, I’m good with it, but just for the sake of communicating clearly, here’s a vid of me viewing a Gigi post. Notice how it looks almost dead until I inspect. https://video.nostr.build/8de580e2dc5d536597fa9d87224ee18043d3bf85a501e48206cc89d44557f450.mp4
I've had no issues with wine or forest
Wine is great. I really like its filter relay. Nostr.land is great too
I need to figure out more about the relays. I get sidetracked and sent chasing rabbits when I'm on here instead of the main thing I should be focusing on
This is a cool site where you can filter relays by location and latency
Did either of you check out that clip I attached above? Just wanna confirm whether or not that’s typical nostr behavior or not.
Some posts are like that yes. Your client fetches the info once you click on it. Some clients, like Nostur have a setting where you can fetch the post statistics while scrolling in the feed