I think there are some misunderstandings on how #Bitcoin consensus works. https://youtu.be/vM_Ski2eK6A
Discussion
Big block supporters lost the block size war even with supoort from 80+% of the miners & large exchanges because they didn't understand Bitcoin's security model. Economically active nodes set the rules. Read the Blocksize War & listen to Bitcoin Audible, or stay stupid.
I agree that economically active nodes such as exchanges or wallets are important in deciding the outcome of a fork but these actors are not the same as « users » but even those actors can’t setup the rules alone. It really depends on the particular scenario et dynamic at play.
Big block supporters lost the block size war even with supoort from 80+% of the miners & large exchanges because they didn't understand Bitcoin's security model. Economically active nodes set the rules. Read the Blocksize War & listen to Bitcoin Audible, or stay stupid.