I can't really compare the user engagement, since I have been here just for a few weeks now 😅 To me it feels fine, just this other side of it seems, like you said, somehow abandoned. But there are projects that get updated, just quite a lot of them really died off. Where I noticed it most is the relay options out there, I didn't find a really good user friendly guide out there on how to setup your own relay, how to manage it...etc By now I would expect more tutorials, maybe some gui tools for kicking out spammers from the relay, etc... It seems it got stuck at the level of only developers being able to run a real relay...