You are making excuses for bragging about using a shitcoin (custodial LN). As I said, that's nothing to brag or to be proud about.
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you were comparing custodial bitcoin to to fiat and PayPal
it seems you still don’t know the difference between a central bank currency and a currency that’s created by PoW
Custodial bitcoin is a fiat and paypal equivalent, that's the point.
I know the difference better than you apparently, seeing that you don't see that lack of 3rd parties is what makes bitcoin not shit.
It’s not equivalent though, you can’t run a node and have your family and friends zap fiat around.
3rd parties will be used to scale bitcoin, financial institutions will not.
Bragging about the possibility of running a node is like bragging about the possibility of having sex. Only actually running a node is brag-worthy (which 99% of zappers are not doing).
Sorry to break it to you, but 3rd party "scaling" custodians are financial institutions, it's literarily the definition of a bank.