I think they're great just how they are. I wouldn't want a cat that behaved more like a dog. Part of the appeal to me is that they are cute little predators with a mind of their own. When they love you it's very rewarding. There's nothing like a cat purring in your lap.

I hope to have a catio someday so they can enjoy the outdoors safely without threatening the birds. I'd build it with a sheltered area for the litter box so I could keep my living space cleaner and fresher.
Not sure the media thing is that big of a deal. People can be shitty owners of any type of pet if they're not willing to learn how to care for them properly.