How about you write a blog about your findings?
There are several #nostr clients which you can write articles (like nostr:npub1048qg5p6kfnpth2l98kq3dffg097tutm4npsz2exygx25ge2k9xqf5x3nf ).
I’ve been thinking about sharing my experiences with building nodes and servers but I fell too deep in the rabbit hole of proxmox, docker, etc so I haven’t accomplished anything.
You are right; talking about it made me feel better. Glad to have found you on #nostr!