GM. For reading a good feed I like relays based on a popular user's web-of-trust (that is they only relay notes from people close to that user) e.g. wot.utxo.one or nostrelites.org
I also run my own relay for backing up notes, keeping dm's private, and just having more control. For this I use HAVEN relay.
If you ever want a separate relay for a private chat just between team members or family, I recommend SW2 relay.