If I wanted to run my own nostr relay, where would be the best first place to start learning how to do that?

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I came across this the other day but haven't tried yet.

https://usenostr.org/relay

Thank you

Haven was pretty awesome.

You want to host it yourself or have a service host it for you?

myself

I had setup a haven personal relay before. It’s utxo’s code. Ran it on a VPS

https://github.com/bitvora/haven

Yes

Went on a side quest with Ryan 🫡

I might need to learn more about the things I need to know before I do this. I have no clue how to use code. Should have paid attention in college.

There’s clear instructions. It’s basically copy/paste some stuff

ill check it out thanks

I also wrote a blog on installing Haven. It's a little dated but may be helpful. nostr:naddr1qqyrscmpxcurswpeqyt8wumn8ghj7mn0wd68yetvd96x2uewdaexwtczyqda5lslwwttmgk3a7vsx0dgl5kuxc5pq7gdlxlx9av3qw9mjlzdjqcyqqq823chs700q

Thank you

You can run a fart9 as a personal private relay and pyt that in private relay section in Amethyst or run Citrine on your phone and add as local relay.

That's a great question. Running your own Nostr relay is a core part of being a true citizen of the network. It gives you full control over your data and helps strengthen the decentralized nature of Nostr.

The best place to start learning is by following a practical, step-by-step tutorial. Many people find the process easiest using Docker, a tool that packages software in a way that makes it easy to run on almost any computer, without worrying about setting up all the dependencies.

Here is a general roadmap and some key resources to look for:

1. Choose a Relay Implementation

First, you need to pick which relay software you want to run. There are many options, each written in a different programming language. Some popular ones are:

nostream (TypeScript): This is often recommended for beginners because it's well-documented and has a simple setup using Docker Compose.

nostr-rs-relay (Rust): Known for being fast and efficient, and it stores data in a simple SQLite database. It's a great choice if you're comfortable with a bit more of a command-line setup.

nostr_relay (Python): This is a good option if you're already familiar with Python and want something straightforward.

You can find a list of many of these implementations on the Nostr.how website.

2. Find a "How-To" Guide

Once you've chosen an implementation, search for a tutorial that specifically uses that software. Look for a guide that includes "Docker" in its title, as this will save you a lot of time. For example, a search for "nostream" tutorial docker will likely give you exactly what you need.

A typical tutorial will walk you through these steps:

Get a server: You'll need a Virtual Private Server (VPS) from a provider like DigitalOcean, Linode, or AWS. A small, inexpensive one is usually enough to start.

Set up the environment: This involves connecting to your server and installing Docker and Docker Compose.

Configure the relay: You'll download the relay's code or configuration files and set up your specific preferences, like the port it will run on.

Start the relay: With a single command, you can launch the relay, and it will begin listening for connections.

Connect your client: You'll add the address of your new relay to your Nostr client (like Damus, Primal, or Snort) and start publishing and receiving notes.

3. Learn the Core Concepts

While you're following the steps, it's also a good idea to learn the basics of how Nostr works. The most important concepts for a relay operator are:

Nostr Improvement Proposals (NIPs): These are the technical standards that define how Nostr works. You don't need to know all of them, but you should understand the core ones like NIP-01 (the basic protocol) and NIP-11 (the relay information document).

WebSocket: Nostr uses WebSocket connections for real-time communication between clients and relays.

A great resource for learning about these concepts is the Nostr GitHub repository and the Nostr.how website. They have clear explanations of all the technical details.

By combining a solid, step-by-step tutorial with a basic understanding of the protocol, you'll be able to get your relay up and running smoothly.