My hair is now long enough that I can tie it up in a knot-bun, without any paraphernalia, and that feels like a milestone. It's normally still too short for that, but wavy hair is magic ✨.

Also fun to stick a pencil or a chopstick through it. Or do a band-free ponytail.

I only use a bit of shampoo on the roots, every few days, and it's never been this nice, before. It's a bit too late, for my hair to be this nice, tho. Anticlimactic.

But I love brushing that heavy mane. Swish. Swish. Swish. I just brush and brush and brush...

And then I tie it back up, to keep it a bit secret. Wearing it down looks best, but makes me feel oddly exposed.

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I love keeping my hair super long but almost always in a braid or a bun so it's like a surprise when I let it down. My 3 year old niece saw it once and got all wide eyed admiring my "mermaid hair" 🧜‍♀️💖

Yes, exactly. I take it down and it sort of s...l...o...w...l...y... cascades down into these big, pitch-black waves and it's like

I (rarely) use a straightening iron, but I just bought a curling iron, as that looks cool, of you do a messy updo like

I'm still stuck on my hot rollers if I want to do anything fancy, otherwise the bun gives it a nice wave. I need to move somewhere not the desert though, my hair is so parched it's turning frizzy straight and it makes me sad

The thing that comple destroyed my hair was bleaching. I've had to just deal and lean into the black-hair/blue-eyes combo and get over trying to be trendy.

I'm getting white streaks, now, along the hairline.

Yea I grew up having my hair bleached... I literally thought I was just blonde. Nah my mom wanted me blonde. Had to cut it all off when I was 18 there was so much damage it wasn't salvageable 😭

I did henna for a little bit, that made my hair glorious but it was such a pain in the butt that I just keep it all natural now. And yes white streaks for me too since COVID. I'm framing it as a good thing though, one day I'll be the wild old lady with way too much hair 💖

My daughter used to be blonde, and she's an ashy light-brown, now. It's so pretty! Sparkles in the sunshine.

Long hair down is great for the cooler seasons, keeps the neck warm. Gets sweaty and sticks to my neck like some evil beast weakly attempting to strangle me from behind in the summer

I never wear it down, IRL. Would drive me nuts, otherwise.

i've been more leaving my hair down when i first get up in the morning but it is often too windy to be practical outdoors so i tie it in a pigtail. it's also a hassle in bed because your back pulls on it, so i have to lift my head and pull it back behind me. it's also a hassle when i'm really sweaty after a long walk outside in sunny weather and sticks to my back.

but i like having it long, always wanted to have long hair in a ponytail and when i'm feeling more proud i tie it up higher. occasionally i make it into pigtails when i'm feeling particularly weird. i probably will eventually get into plaiting it later, seems quite practical for heavy physical activity. certainly if i am working with machines like drills and saws i probably will do the man-bun to avoid getting it in teh machine and sawing my face off lol.

I'm usually braids or buns, but I've been doing more side-ponytails and high ponytails, lately.

I'm always trying to distribute the weight, somehow, as it already weighs a ton.

weight reminds the times when I had (mohawk) dreadlocks to my waist.

after 15 years I decided to go back to basics (well mohawk) and you probably can't imagine that sensation when you feel the wind in that much lighter hair.

Oh, I can. I've gone from waistline to butch cut, a few times.

yeah, it's totally the opposite of nicholas_cage_freedom.gif

That picture is so vintage

I love vintage aesthetic. Hunted it down on Pinterest.

I don't use any products on it. Just the bit of shampoo and a boar-bristle brush to spread the oils down from the roots. Wash it maybe once or twice per week.

My hair is water-resistent, like lambs' wool. And it's rarely very frizzy. If it starts to frizz, I tie it up in a tight bun for a bit, and it smooths back out. Weird, but cool.

Was thinking about dumping shampoo, entirely, and switching to conditioner-only washing, but I haven't yet made the jump.

i recently ditched the shampoo, and the soap. now mainly just scrub with a plastic scrubby thing. one of those boar bristle brushes sounds like the exact thing for washing the hair, it won't pull at the knots but lets you massage the scalp and with the warm water softening the oils help spread it better.

i'll have to make a mental note to visit haircare specialist shops next time i'm in town to find a nice brush for that. i might experiment with the bamboo bristled detangler brush i have in the meantime.

I tried not washing it at all, just scritching and brushing, when we lived in the States, but the transition is 🫠. And it takes up so much time.

And I complely gave up, when I started working at a bakery, as the flour got everywhere, even with a head scarf.

I only use soap on my hands.

I just use rough washcloths, otherwise, and scrub hard with warm water. Cured my chronically dry, itchy skin. Friction is enough, for most parts of the body, but hands can get gross. Using brushes to scrub hands, instead of soap, is pure torture. I know people who scrub their hands with brushes and then rinse with vinegar, just to brag that they don't use soap, and it's masochistic. 😂 Burns like a mofo.

yeah, i used micellar water to get me through the transition, my hair is a lot better now but i need a better brush. also, yeah, soap on the hands is essential, much of the time the gunk on it is oil so it has to be done.

Well, you can also wash with oil and extremely hot water, but that will dry your skin out worse than soap. Tried oil-washing my face, once, and it felt like paper, afterward. 😱

yeah, i'm just gonna get a nice brush, and try the bamboo detangler thing

last time i was doing this i was a "feral" living in northern NSW going to rave parties, i even started to dread them up but i don't like dreads actually.

but for sure, not using soap my skin feels a lot better. in actual fact i think my skin is now cleaner, but the thing that i think is more important is that the pH is normalising and yeah i get less itching and all that. industrial soap industry is actually just a part on the edge of the bomb making business. if the soap hasn't had its glycerine removed it works a lot better. i used to use Dr Bronners but trying it again a couple of years ago it was not the same soap i remember from my 20s. at all.

anyhow, like my body piercing trainer said, the most important thing is blood warm water and friction, soap is only really necessary to make skin clean enough to pierce if it's really gunked up with oil. of course generally you then use alcohol to swab the spot but as i've also heard from other people explaining, the whole thing with blood pressure and the natural physics of our skin, it's made to put up with lacerations from time to time, they can't really be avoided. the blood pushes most of the infectious material out of the wound as long as it's open and wide enough, all you have to do is wash it and then keep it a bit damp in the first few days and it does the rest.

in fact, as a kid i got a lot of mild lacerations, sometimes quite severe, from skateboarding. i never did anything about it, except if it wouldn't stop bleeding. healed up just fine in a few days and then itchy and scabs fall off.

i wouldn't advise this in general, really you should always wash a bleeding wound thoroughly, and apply disinfectant, and seal it up and bandage over it. plastic is actually better, doesn't stick to the blood, but after giving myself a good minor vein cut last year i always keep bandages, band-aids and gauze and antiseptic cream in the house. on that occasion i had to rip up a shirt and use plastic while i went to pick up those supplies. it was pretty bad, i was starting to go into shock from the blood loss.

so i make it a rule now. in fact i really should make a small pack for my backpack when i go on big walks. just haven't really been fit enough to tackle the terrain here, most places i ever lived were not nearly as rugged.

Oof. That's scary.

yeah, it was more scary for the fact i was alone. i really went to town on the supplies also, made sure i'd never be wondering what to do about it.

it happens so infrequently that it's easy to be complacent, and that experience told me it could be deadly, if i'd not stopped the bleeding and lost consciousness, nobody was coming.

yay, i have everything i need to deal with minor potentially life threatening cuts and lacerations, including antihistamine and paracetamol, scissors, gause, bandages, antiseptic creme, and plain band-aids. the top cover of the bag is perfect for it.

I did co-washing for years, but now they make shampoos without silicates, sulfates, and parabens. It helps keep the natural texture and also helps my scalp stay cleaner, I had trouble with dandruff when only co-washing.

Yeah, that's my fear. My hair really is deep black and every little flake can be seen from a mile away. As if it has its own personal spotlight. 😂🙈

And the water here is so hard.

I just keep the shampoo to the roots and scrub the roots and then rinse, and that's enough. I don't have a soap-phobia, or anything.

You’re so prrrty

*blush*

That's not me, in the picture! I just thought it was pretty.

I know … I meant you’re prrrty in long hair 😍

Thanks. 💖

Sound like historical romance

We're going out for lunch, today, so I washed my hair and when it's wet, you can almost see how long it is. The waves make it look a lot shorter, but I pulled on one, to show you that goes down to my shoulders, now. Proof of Hair. 😂

The bright backlight makes me look filtered, but I needed that, as otherwise there's just this impenetrable dark spot, where hair should be. 😂 Cameras can't seem to "see" black hair.

idk if it will work on the front camera but many recent models have HDR which catches a lot more detail when the image has a wide dynamic range

I have a cheap Moto 😂🙈

yeah, my G51 is a cheap moto too and it can do HDR on the back but not the front.

HDR kinda requires multiple sensors to work in any reasonable situation doing selfies, so it can concurrrently capture multiple exposures.

even still, i did HDRs with my mother's Canon EOS with a tripod back in the day using multiple shot bracketed exposure setting. takes about 10 seconds in total. but the images are legit HDR after they get processed

most phone camera HDR range is narrow compared to what you can do with a pro camera