Same thing happened with me, except I'm an asshole so I wasn't too confused about why.
I hope someone gets this to her and you get an explanation 🤙
nostr: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 I hope this message finds you doing well. Over the past several months I have made sincere efforts to follow your amazing content and interact with you on a regular basis. Between reacting positively to your posts, giving heartfelt life advice, and even doing my best to comfort you after your father died with the power of memes. Our interactions have been positive and cordial so far.
However, after the past several reactions and memes that I made to your posts the interactions and responses stopped all together.
While I am not as naive, or emotionally needy as to falsely believe that I deserve any attention from you. I am not accustomed to putting so much effort into trying to develop a positive acquaintanceship only to be ghosted by someone I think so highly of.
This is not a letter of demanding attention. Seeking any explanations for lack of responses. Nor anything as so pathetic as to believe I even should get a response from you for this post too. This is simply me trying to figure out how many shits and amount of effort I should I give in the future.
Taking the time out for long detailed responses to posts with a genuine interest in one's overall well being while trying to help someone I respect. Is not something that requires minimal effort and it is not something I do for just anyone. As a matter of fact I am quite lazy and casual in that department 95% of the time. I really don't like putting that much thought, time, and effort into responding to random people on the internet. They have to be Legendary enough to actually deserve it.
I have not a problem whatsoever never putting the level of thought and care that I have in the past for interacting with you on a very strictly platonic acquaintanceship level from here moving forward. However, I am writing you this sincere post now to discover if I should progress forward with this 0 shits given intention, or if me giving any shits in the future is desired and/or requested by you.
Whether I hear from you, you tell me to wander off and play a rousing game of go fuck myself, or something else entirely.
Hope your life is good.
Take care, stay awesome, and have a wonderful day.
Sincerely,
The Legendary Man
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Whether I get an explanation or not isnt really the point. I am lazy as fuck. When you start to give a shit about someone on any sort of level. Then investing time and effort into giving kind sincere well thought out responses that helps improve the quality of life for her and her husband. Only to suddenly be ghosted whether intentional, or unintentional. Is a slap in the face and a swift kick to the balls.
I don't want to make the effort if it is not reciprocated. I've already sworn off having any friendships, because of being used and stabbed in the back. I don't want to spend time and effort maintainin acquaintenships on the internet if they are unwanted, or I unreciprocated. Otherwise I am just wasting valuable time that could be spent elsewhere with people who actually give a flying fuck.
Yeah, in all seriousness, we needn't worry about â• gang fools while we build a cluster of nostr users that give and receive engagement with sincerity.
