Pretty women, who insist of having hard, manly occupations are...
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Compensating for not having a real man for themselves.
Easily duped and most definitely vaxed.
mislead
By whom?
Family, friends, teachers, media, etc
What should those people have told them, instead?
I think there's a bunch of things that can be done:
- Call out feminist propaganda in media
- Be a good example as a man or woman respectively
- Teach them to lean into their femininity in a healthy way
- Tell them that very few people find the most meaning and fulfillment from their career
There's a bunch more but these are simple ones that pop into my mind
So, you think they're primarily motivated by outside influences?
Yes, I'd say that there has always been a subset of women with this temperament but only with modern technology and ideology have they been able to engage in these occupations. Women are more prone to outside influence than men because historically, being ostracized by the group would mean death for themselves and their children in small communities.
That's true. Women couldn't really be knights or blacksmiths, back in the day.
But don't you think technological changes mean that there's less reason for women to not engage in those activities?
I think in some ways it all boils down to fiat.
Debasing the money steals the gains made by technology, robbing people of their time and then fund feminist/socialist propaganda to make sure the remaining time is used to be a worker drone for the fiat machine instead of raising families and building communities.
If we remained on something like a gold standard most men could provide for a large family on a part time job and most women wouldn't have been trained to behave like men .
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using their right to do whatever they want with their lifes.
Selfish. Not because they want or have hard manly occupations but because in your scenario they "insist". I would say the same for men that insist on having hard manly occupations.
Out in the real world you do what is needed for people who need it, because they need it. It is of course wise to choose to do hard things at which you are adept because, likely, that will be where you are most needed.
Ah, yeah. That's true. But manly jobs tend to pay more, so that suggests higher demand.
I meant "insist" because everyone expects them to marry someone rich and just lie about the pool or go shopping, or whatever.
I mean, why work at all, right?
And why something hard?
Oh. I didn't have lounging by a pool on a diet as the alternative. I had, doing hard womanly things, penciled in.
Like nursing? Yeah. I'm thinking someone good at hard manly things isn't gonna be as good at the womanly things.
Or raising kids. As someone who excels at hard manly thing, but does hard womanly things badly for a living instead, I have different perspective. I don't do it because I insist, I do it because that is what my family needs me to do. My sisters all make it look easy. But they don't have 3/4 of their brain designing novel communication protocols and cathedrals on Mars 100% of the time.
I was in the same position you're in. 😂 At home with the little kids, but mentally off in engineering land. Teaching math and rhetoric classes for homeschoolers, and catechism classes, was my only reprieve.
I wasn't bad at it, but... yeah. The other women were better. I'm better at not sleeping with the gardner or blowing the milk money on shoes, tho.
Last time I was at home with the kids, I got into Bitcoin. 😂 Staying true to type.
I am excellent at not blowing milk money on a gardener. I rake my own leaves thank you very much.
Also. Doing things you are bad at has it's own rewards. Here is my current predicament and why I can neither code nor vacuum.
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My wife claims he left behind a trail of broken hearts at the doctor's office yesterday.
I've got to teach him not to promise in smiles that which he cannot pay in snuggles.
Just occured to me, that I dealt with not doing hard manly stuff by doing hard womanly stuff.
Can't engineer?
Teach logic lessons.
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archtypically- perhaps its not feminine to have a drive to put a dent in the universe, so maybe opposite drive would be to keep things together. I imagine both drives exist in tension with one another, to which actions are a realization of one dominating over another given the circumstance
A lot of it is probably just displaced sexual energy.
Displaced, channeled, but definitely not misplaced
Family member who felt ignored by her engineer dad wanted to be an engineer as well. As youngest, She remembers playing with the compass and slide rule and drawing tools, and wanting to do exactly what her father did when she grew up.
So I wonder if it's failed parent child bonding. Like she was trying to please her dad by picking up his interests. She also loves fishing which he did too. Chip off the old block.
Not sure where the genetic interests run into the interests learned while seeking-to-please behavior.
Also probably an effect of smaller families, with fewer sons.
One of the daughters becomes the proto-son.
Interesting, quite likely. 1 son and 2 daughters
Oldest son got the trainset and erector set for Christmas, middle daughter did her own thing, youngest daughter wanted a trainset and the engineering toys her oldest brother got.
Maybe the youngest felt like an accident, burden and tried to get closer to her dad.
So yeah, if the third child hadn't been a burden and the family bigger, it maybe would have worked itself out.
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Also, joining military is such a lucrative occupation, especially if one likes astronaut/computer science stuff and wants to have money.
I don't know what predominantly female occupation is similar to themilitary that pays for school and career after like this for women.
Also truck driving.
Its interesting to think about. Early in life we're so eager to cartograph our senses so that we can navigate the word. Makes sense that the things that have the most impact early on orients ourselves to mirror that impact later on through through internalizing and reinterpretation. You start off at the top of a mountain point and even the slightest breeze can set you off, biased to an orientation.
It really seems that way. I'm not a car person at all, but when I started car shopping, I was surprised how quickly I become interested in what engine, what clearance, what gas mileage.
It's almost like we fall into patterns of self reinforcing behavior/interests.
Somebody's competitive little sister, IME :D