Sometimes asking the dev directly makes everything more confusing. 🤣
When a dev throws buzzwords at me, I'm better off reviewing their code.
This is basically a defeciency/failure in marketing. Customers/consumers/users will only reliably choose your product if they can discern it from the others. The best way to get chosen is to communicate the benefit(s) of your offering.
What we're experiencing with many Nostr tools is the equvalent of me trying to pitch the sale of electric winches, AIS, a steering wheel, and a dacron triangle, when I should be pitching, "This is a sailboat. It allows you to travel across water from wind power."