They are visible on yakihonne on desktop.
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But on #yakihonne I can't seem to find the relay settings so I have no idea which ones I am connected to. Does it come with a standard pack of relays?
I have never used their desktop version, only iOS, so I am not entirely sure. But if you ask someone from the nostr:npub1yzvxlwp7wawed5vgefwfmugvumtp8c8t0etk3g8sky4n0ndvyxesnxrf8q team, I have no doubt they will help you.
Sorry for the delay, was getting some house work done.
Heythere just open the settings youbwill find relay settings there for 3 different things: content, dms, and search if u face any issues feel free to tag us