The incentives are such that there will be nodes to bridge those connections until regulations and compliance get in the way
Discussion
What nodes are bridging connections? My node can't even talk with the big nodes right
I don't know, but you might need to diversify your peers or channel partners. Add some peers and see if your reachability improves.
Is there an easy way to do this? Is there a way to find peers that will offer paths?
I like nostr:npub17tlh448s3tfdfgymehqdkdn52as59qsrax0n9h58pk54wcmqyc2qklzsxj You can find nodes that are both tor and clearnet capable. Check out their stats and connect to peer's accordingly, maybe even open a channel or two.