Yes 100%. The pain of taking accountability for their actions is so unbearable that their minds rewrite history so it's never their responsibility to take, it's always happened differently, it's always been someone else's fault. That's guaranteed insanity for their partners and loved ones, but it doesn't make them bad people.
I couldn't agree with you more 💜🫂
A good anology is people who are asleep, and rather stay sleeping than to wake up. I am not sure if some are capable of waking up....
Some are, but the ones that are on "automatic pilot", believing that they are doing nothing wrong I am not sure.
I have been thinking about it.
I read a lot that it's not possible but something tells me maybe they can?
I am not sure if it's only wishful thinking.
I understand and I also choose to believe they can... It's just is only possible if they want to go through the pain of doing so, and accepting that we are all human, we aren't perfect but we must take accountability for our shortcomings, to learn and not repeat them. Otherwise without true understanding of our actions the patterns will just continue... It doesn't make us "less than" to make mistakes and there is so much we can learn from how those who love us express themselves towards us.
I like the way you put it on this note. I think the bottom line is the willingness of the person. Sometimes a new context helps them see, a specific person helps them sail through that pain and they ultimately help each other...
Like 🐈⬛, one sure thing is we can do that shadow work for ourselves ✨
