I expect there to be a gradient of self-custody in a number of people's toolkits right now. When lightning was less reliable a few years ago, I've had to fall back on strike bc Tor was slow or I couldn't find a route.
I'm concerned about how bitcoiners choose to address existing gaps in self-custody. Just seeing how cheerfully people are flooding into custodial wallets is kind of disappointing. If you're gonna use a custodial solution, at least feel bad about it as a bitcoiner 😂