Am I crazy? I never touched a dating app

I find them objectifing an superficial

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Are you single?

How do you meet people?

My favorite activities are yoga, slacklining, salsa dancing and cooking.... I have yet to meet a single guy my age in a yoga class or in the slackline community....

As for cooking, I do that at home...no single guys here 😂

I do meet guys salsa dancing....but have yet to find a match there.

I'm staying on the app for the summer. If I meet someone..... great!

If not.....probably won't go on again .......until my girlfriend comes to visit me in a couple years and convinces me to sign up😂

Yes, I'm single

It's tough, but I always choose the most difficult path for some reason

Dancing to EDM is my favorite pastime, but I'll dance to anything

I was a proficient ballroom dancer in my 20s

Nice.

I'm likely much older than you (at 60yo)... Had to Google EDM.... 😂

I'm not into that type of music

...or festivals....crowd camping...or smoking pot....

Looking for people who can carry on conversations sober. I'm more introverted.... Not shy.... Just don't enjoy huge crowded events...

I'm 47 age and wisdom, but mentally and physically I feel like I'm 30

You have me all wrong, I make a conscience attempt to focus on my mindset, this way I can have fun no matter the situation

I don't need to alter my brain chemically, I can mentally do it

I never close myself off to possibilities and experiences

I am an introvert and I place myself in uncomfortable situations until I feel comfortable and confident

The people I know who go to festivala are generally into getting high on things other than the music. So I did make a generalization about festival attendee profiles. Didn't say that you or everyone at the festival was like that.

When I go to parties or hang with people who are all high on (whatever) ...me being sober or only having had 1 drink, makes for a very boring time... I'm not in that energy and it's not fun.

Kudos to you if you've found that vibe to be fun and a great way to meet people. 🙌

I do try things out of my comfort zone and go to a lot of things by myself (even though I'm an introvert)....I went to line dancing bar by myself last month to learn dancing....

My preference is for physical activity.... If I'm camping, I want to be in the woods and hiking near a waterfall.... And as I said... Not interested in EDM so those festivals are not for me.

There are many different types festivals and the ones, I've attended focus on health and wellness, they offer a variety of music, activities (yoga classes) and have hiking trails and lakes for swimming

You don't have to listen to any music if you don't want too

Cool. Lmk of any upcoming festivals in Florida that I can attend.... I don't have an expense budget so hopefully it's close to free. 😁

You live in Florida? Why did I think you lived in the Global South?

Not sure. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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I also go to multi day music yoga festivals and camp, the people that attend these events are already in the right state of mind that making IRL connections much easier

lol you do need friends to convince you to sign up. My friends forced me to sign up 6 months ago lol

and, how's it going?

Still searching

people are addicted to dopamine hits and gambling so they will always think they can trade up and do better

finding anyone willing to settle down on these apps is going to be a difficult challenge

If you can meet IRL that's the best. But nowadays a lot of people meet on apps