Nostr is my home. Manual zaps are welcome and my lightning wallet address is listed on my profile. I do not connect my nostr account to my lightning wallet, because it is not a feature, but a privacy and security flaw in protocol design.

Also creating a nostr app for linux launching next year. So there is that too...

For me I'm on Nostr because I got banned everywhere else.

That being said I prefer onchain payments over Zaps because to me Zaps feel like a proxy for Bitcoin rather than a settled payment.